Dialogue Forum

MUM has a long reputation for hosting Dialogue Forums.  These forums are safe places for people of varying views to tell their stories and listen to one another.  After short presentations from persons with varying views, individuals are able to dialogue around tables with the assistance of a facilitator.  Finally, views are shared in a large group setting. 

The purpose of these forums is to truly communicate beyond the usual “sound bytes,” not to persuade others to one’s own view. 

MUM’s recent Dialogue Forum was on “Gay Marriage: Communicating Beyond Sound Bytes.”  Each of five clergy presenters had different views on gay marriage.  They were asked to respond to the following question: “A person who attends your congregation has come to your office.  She tells you that she is in a committed relationship with a woman who also helps her raise her child.  She asks you to bless their union in some king of way.  She also expresses her grief at not being able to be married in the eyes of the state.  What do you say and how do you provide pastoral care to her?”  Then participants shared their stories and views with each other around the tables.